Believe

Every year during the Christmas season we have a list of “must-see” movies. The ones everyone is 

watching and will continue to watch year after year and readily quote all the most meaningful, 

scandalous, or slap-happy funny lines.  

I admit that being the “creator” of Christmas in the way of baking, shopping,  wrapping, cooking and 

decorating makes it hard to sit down to watch a movie, so I usually get only bits and pieces of most 

of them as I run by in a frenzy, cookie dough in my hair and wrapping paper in hand (unless it’s “It’s a

 Wonderful Life”, that’s my sit down movie).

But, somehow this year I managed to watch “Miracle on 34th Street” with my full...okay ½ attention, 

and was actually captivated by it or more so God used it to speak truth into my spirit. Don’t judge

 because it happens a lot.

I know many people choose to keep Santa out of their Christmas and I respect their decision but I 

hope those that decide to welcome Santa receive the same respect.  Santa is not the reason for

 the season but for those that have not accepted Jesus I see it as a place where faith can be

 inserted and God can penetrate a normally hard and troubled heart. Now, before you throw up 

your arms in protest let me just explain…

Santa in fact was a man of faith in Jesus. A godly man. And even though society has taken his

 persona and elevated it to a place where I am sure the original man would not approve of I think

 His legacy of goodness cannot be easily separated from the root of his goodness.. I believe God 

used him and is still using his story to minister to the hearts of the most wretched men and when 

a wretched man’s heart is open God can enter in.  

“How silently, how silently

The wondrous gift is given!

So God imparts to human hearts

The blessings of His heaven.

No ear may hear His coming,

But in this world of sin,

Where meek souls will receive him still,

The dear Christ enters in.”  (Oh Little Town of Bethlehem)

Christmas time can be a tough time for so many sad souls. Loss, hurts and baggage from sins,

whether our own or effects of someone elses, can make our hearts heavy with doubt, regret and 

anger.

Yet during Christmas we are reminded of childlike faith, Jesus himself praised and refered to in the 

Bible.

" Then he said, "I tell you the truth, unless you turn from your sins and become like little children, you will never get into the Kingdom of Heaven." Matt 18:3
The faith we all have had before the weight of sin and death made us cynical Ebenezer 

Scrooges, as we witness through our children just what believing can do...the joy, the wonder,

 the anticipation. Our hearts remember and want so much to go back to that simple way of believing.

 Why not? 

” Faith is the confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.”

 (Heb 1:1)

   Or as  Fred Gailey puts it...

“Faith is believing in things when common sense tells you not to.” Miracle on 34th 

Street (1947)

So I write this post not to give answers to all the troubles of the world but in hopes that my friends

 who struggle with believing would let Jesus “enter in” and heal your wounded soul;

and for my friends who have felt God and still have doubt to give Him a chance by believing 

He is good even when the evils of this world try to steal your belief.  

“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” Rom 12:21

“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities,

 against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly 

realms...In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all

 the flaming

 arrows of the evil one.” Eph 6:12&16

And for all of my friends who have known God and find themselves in a struggle with doubt,

 to allow yourselves to put down your walls and let Him in once more...let Him fill you with the peace

 and joy you have missed.  Not everything is clear but soon sweet friends we will all know and all 

bow before this same God.

“We don't yet see things clearly. We're squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won't

 be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We'll see it all then, see it all as 

clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!” I Cor 13:12 MSG

“If you can’t accept anything on faith, then you’re doomed for a life dominated by doubt.” 

Kris Kringle, Miracle on 34th Street (1994)

What I know is we all have the ability to believe but only we can choose to open the door to his

knocking...He so passionately pursues us.

Today we all celebrate Christmas some of us with our mind on gifts and food and family...some 

on the empty chair beside us or the ache of the want/need deep inside us. Only one gift can satisfy

 your longings this Christmas, don’t wait to open it...God is surely with us let HIm enter in.

“Oh, Christmas isn’t just a day. It’s a frame of mind.” Kris Kringle  Miracle on 34th 

Street (1947)

“And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. “ 

1 John 5:11

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him

 shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

This year as in every year, I wait with anticipation of the glorious return of our Saviour and Christmas

 is just a glimpse of what we all hope for but cannot compare to in the coming fulfillment of what all 

our hearts desire, being united not just in spirit but in body with Jesus, the hope of all humanity.

Merry Christmas to all our friends far and wide! 

My wish for you this year is to let God enter 

in...Believe...so that you may have fullness of joy.

We Have Lift Off.

I don't know where summer went but now I am a day away from taking my son and 2nd child to college.   I had 19 years to prepare myself for this and it still sneaked up on me.

I am hoping that we prepared him for life...that this day will prove that he has the form, stamina and power to launch into this new world on his own.   Whatever the case this bird wants to fly, the rocket is ready to launch whether I am ready or not to see it happen. I think he mentally left a year ago and has been coasting to this day ever since.
Whatever motherly demands he puts to me, my response has been, "19 years is my limit now its time to make your own food!"   I am somewhat joking but seriously, when its time it's time.  My sentimental sappy mom side wants to get all Hallmarky but honestly, I know it's time and I couldn't be more thankful that he is excited to go.  That makes me excited for him and for all the new experiences he will have.  So I guess I can, somewhat, pat myself on the back that I am not pushing this bird out of the nest but he is jumping...it's much easier that way on everyone.
So..
What do I want him to know as he leaves?
1.  I will always love you no matter what. No grade, accomplishment or path you decide to go will change my love for you.

2. Sometimes college and life is not so fun.  We all remember the best times but...loans have to be paid back, relationships can be heartbreaking, and the cafeteria food will definitely be disappointing.
Hopefully you will have enough sense to work hard when you don't want to, remember that there are other fish in the sea, and your mama's food will taste better than you remembered when you come home.

3.  Kindness, forgiveness, and love go a long way.  No amount of talent or cleverness can replace good character.  Be kind. Love big. Look over an offense.

4. Don't be a push over but do listen and hear people out because even though you think you know everything you don't and listening to others will help you learn and help you make a well informed opinion.

5. Your opinions do and will change but don't compromise the absolute truths you have learned and know from experience.

6. There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother and His name is Jesus.  Keep close to Him and share Him with everyone.

Here is a tip for mamas who are crying into their coffee mug every morning because their babies are gone.
1. It's okay to cry.  Raising a child to adulthood is the most important and difficult job you will have and maybe somewhere in the middle (some of us at the beginning) we wanted to quit but somehow, in the end, we just feel so sure we can't live without them. Going cold turkey from the addiction of motherhood is tough, it takes time to get used to our new normal.  The truth is they will be back and we will be able to adjust but it's okay to cry, you earned the right.

2. Stop crying. Keep it together for their sake and save the blubbering for the long ride home.  I know the scene that you keep creating in your mind of the long and emotional goodbyes...driving away waving and blowing kisses as you watch your son/daughter become a dot in the distance as they wave and watch you pull away.  This is it mama's we have trained them and they are ready to launch don't interfere with take off by making them responsible for your
feelings. Trust God to be with them when we cannot and if that scene you created in your mind doesn't happen, its okay, just remember when they were difficult and you wished them to grow up and thank God they did.

3. Celebrate. This is a great day!  Our kids are doing it!  They are embracing their future and walking into the great unknown.  It is good to rejoice in the passages of life.

4. Enjoy your new life.  Find the good and embrace the new things God can do in your life. Don't feel guilty about doing things that you never had time for, I am sure God has some great opportunities planned for you...after you stop crying. 

I hope these days of change will be a way to trusting a Love that is bigger and better than yours for your children's future and yours too. 

" O Lord, you have examined my heart
    and know everything about me. 

 You know when I sit down or stand up.
    You know my thoughts even when I’m far away. 

 You see me when I travel
    and when I rest at home.
    You know everything I do. 

 You know what I am going to say
    even before I say it, Lord.

You go before me and follow me.
    You place your hand of blessing on my head...

If I ride the wings of the morning,
    if I dwell by the farthest oceans,

even there your hand will guide me,
    and your strength will support me. 

 I could ask the darkness to hide me
    and the light around me to become night— 

     but even in darkness I cannot hide from you.
To you the night shines as bright as day.
    Darkness and light are the same to you."

Psalms 139:1-5, 9-12

Wholesome 30 Challenge

 Last month I jumped on the band wagon and did the Whole30. Those of you who do not know what that is, I will give you a brief description from co creator Melissa Hartwig:

Certain food groups (like sugar, grains, dairy and legumes) could be having a negative impact on your health and fitness without you even realizing it. Are your energy levels inconsistent or non-existent? Do you have aches and pains that can’t be explained by over-use or injury? Are you having a hard time losing weight no matter how hard you try? Do you have some sort of condition, like skin issues, digestive ailments, seasonal allergies, or chronic pain, that medication hasn’t helped? These symptoms are often directly related to the foods you eat—even the “healthy” stuff. So how do you know if (and how) these foods are affecting you?

Strip them from your diet completely. Eliminate the most common craving-inducing, blood sugar disrupting, gut-damaging, inflammatory food groups for a full 30 days. Let your body heal and recover from whatever effects those foods may be causing. Push the reset button with your health, habits, and relationship with food, and the downstream physical and psychological effects of the food choices you’ve been making. Learn how the foods you’ve been eating are actually affecting your day-to-day life, long term health, body composition, and feelings around food. The most important reason to keep reading?

This will change your life.

I cannot possibly put enough emphasis on this simple fact—the next 30 days will change your life. It will change the way you think about food. It will change your tastes. It will change your habits and your cravings. It will restore a healthy emotional relationship with food, and with your body. It has the potential to change the way you eat for the rest of your life. I know this because I did it, and millions people have done it since, and it changed my life (and their lives) in a dramatic and permanent fashion.

 I was reluctant to subject myself to this pain of deprivation but I figured I could do anything for 30 days, right?  I was right, although there was some grumbling in the desert of Gluten-Dairy Free, I did survive, but no one should ever have to live without cheese. I have a new compassion for those of you dairy intolerant people, I'm so sorry.

So the question asked, “How was it?”  “How do you feel now?” Honestly, I did feel better and I didn't die without bread and dairy (not literally, anyways) but my bigger take away was that I could psychologically conquer matter with my mind...albeit, with a little crying.

Did it change my life?  Well, let’s be totally honest, I can't give it that much credit. I am all about a good detox and resetting my body; I can even be a health guru sometimes,but let's get real... nothing can change your life like Jesus. So, while I was in the whole30 desert I decided I would create my own whole30 challenge for true life change, because we all need a good detox from wrong thinking and the only way to do this is knowing truth.

...And because we are all dense and need the hammer of truth to sink it in deep, this idea came to me right in time for our new series titled Toxic. Here is the description of this week’s sermon: “Need a little personal poison control? Are there relationships, thoughts, or behaviors that quietly compromise our well-being? How can we learn to recognize and remove the hidden dangers in our lives? This morning Pastor Mark will unpack the ways that we can reject poison in our life and replace it with God truth.”  Coincidence? I don't think so...that's how the Holy Spirit works so, this is what we are going to do, I am challenging you to a wholesome30 and eating all the bread you want...the bread of life I mean:

Certain habits (like slander, gossip, or entertaining negative thoughts about yourself and others) could be having a negative impact on your  heart and spiritual walk without you even realizing it. Is your prayer time inconsistent or non-existent? Do you have bad attitudes and strained relationships that can’t be fixed? Are you having a hard time keeping friends no matter how hard you try? Do you have some sort of heart condition, like jealousy, self hate, impure thoughts, or chronic potty mouth, that you can’t seem to get a handle on? These symptoms are often directly related to the things you feed your mind….even the “healthy” things you try to do once a week are not enough to help you. So how do you know if this isn’t you?

Strip negative talk from your life completely. Eliminate the most common wrong craving-inducing, , gut-damaging , inflammatory talk  for a full 30 days. Let your body mind and spirit heal and recover from whatever effects those negative thoughts and words may be causing. Push the reset button with your mind and heart, habits, and relationships, and the downstream physical and psychological effects of the words and thought choices you’ve been making. Learn how the thoughts you’ve been indulging in are actually affecting your day-to-day life, long term health, church body, and relationships. The most important reason to keep reading?

This will change your life.

I cannot possibly put enough emphasis on this simple fact—the next 30 days will change your life. It will change the way you think about yourself, Jesus and others. It will change your desires. It will change your habits and your cravings. It will restore a healthy emotional relationship with your family, friends and everyone you meet. It has the potential to change the way you live for the rest of your life. I know this because I did it, and millions of people have done it since, and it changed my life (and their lives) in a dramatic and permanent fashion.

Ready for a life change?  You can do this...it’s just the start to a better life of freedom from poisonous, potentially life threatening habits.

Everyday for 30 days we are going to pray for these things:

1. Transform my heart and renew my mind so my thoughts are pleasing to you. (Ps. 51:10 Romans 12:2)
2. Let my words give life and help me to hold my tongue when I want to say something that is not helpful or edifying about myself or others. (Proverbs 18:21 Ephesians 4:29)
3. Give me love for those who don't like me or hate me and not repay evil with evil but help me to sincerely do good to them. (Mt. 5:44 Luke 6:35, 1 Peter 3:9)
4. When I am feeling anxious, fearful or worried help me to trust you with every need big and small. (Phil 4:6-7 Matt 6:25-34) (1 Tim 1:7)
5. Help me to think of others more highly than myself (Phil 2:3-7)
6. Help me to forgive more and judge less myself and others. (Matt 6:14-15, Matt 7:4-5, Eph. 4:31-32, 1John 1:9  Ps. 103:12)
7. Let your word speak to me and give me new revelation of who you are, who I am in you and your love for me. (Romans 10:17, Hebrew 4:12, Ps. 119:11, Eph 2:10)
8. Take captive my thoughts and make them obedient to your truth.  (2 Cor 10:5)
9. Help me to not entertain poisonous conversations and know when it's time to walk away from an unhealthy relationship. (Proverbs 26:20-22, 1 Cor 5:11, 1 Cor 15:33, Prov. 13:20 Prov 14:7)
10. Help me to protect my heart and put good into my mind. (Proverbs 4:23, Luke 6:45)